I am sorry, I might of wrote it bad. The down syndrome son is not the bad one, that drove her to this, he is actually really cool and nice (it killed me yesterday to hear him cry and scream, he wont eat, sleep or nothing
The other soon drove her crazy, his name is Julian. the guy is just crazy, after his mother suffered the stroke and heart attack he told his 10yo daughter and wife he was going to kill them, because they drove his mom to that. He knows that it's his fault but he wont admit it.
Thanks for the good thoughts