Go to Jay or Smuggs. Or anything up near Burlington.
I'll +1 Mount Snow, but only if you hit it during the week (they have an epic park, probably one of the best on the east coast). Avoid on the weekends at all costs. Too many Boston/New Yorkers head up there or Stratton to get their once-a-year ski weekends in and the places gets mobbed. (Yes, I live in Boston but I coach on weekends, I don't consider myself a Bostonian).
Okemo is ok. Not steep enough for me.
Kilington's nightlife is the best.
Moral of the story is head north. Better snow, less crowds.