my first thought was give him a bj too. however OP is married so she is well aware that men are disgusting vulgar pigs...nothing new and no need to be ashamed.
Don't get me wrong, I LOVE men. So easy to please, as you guys only have two emotions, hungry and horny.
If your man is unhappy just feed him or fuck him. It's simple really....Im so glad Im not a lesbian, women are crazy complicated (myself included)I'd kill myself lol!