Fuck them fools. Anyone who started riding around 2000 and slags people for not getting enough days is a D-Bag.
I also started snowboarding in 1987 and have not managed to hit the 20 day mark most years since the late 90s. Thankfully this year I got more days in than most. Work, life, kids ....I'd ride every day if I could.
Keep trying to go as much as you can and do what makes you happy on the mountain.