Bummer about your trip experience. I left with a much better experience. Of course, I went with a group of 16, rented a lodge 5 minutes outside of the village, and had some ladies to cook us some fine meals. I was there from 3/03 to 3/06. Rode from 3/04 to 3/06. First two days were horrendous for weather conditions. White out with rain the first day. Last day was a bluebird and was just amazing. We got up early enough with only 30 people in front of us at the Blackcomb gondola and got some fresh tracks on 7th heaven. Mostly rode Blackcomb and only went on Whistler to ride the peak2peak. I had a blast on the mountain. I didn't interact with much people on the mountain, but the folks that I did talk to were friendly.
Help me try to understand why you guys decided to spend your honeymoon on snow sports. I'm guessing you both enjoy it that much, but my lady would've voted for the tropical island. Perhaps, you may have a different experience when you visit with less expectations and pressure that comes with a honeymoon. There is so much pressure for it to be perfect. Hope the next one turns out much better for you!