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Old 02-26-2013, 05:46 AM   #1 (permalink)
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So I asked this girl to be my plus one to this wedding I was going to since I was given one and wanted to use it mainly because I only know the bride, but have no mutual friends with her so I would be forced to mingle with a bunch of people I don't know. Not that it's bad, but it's more work to try socializing with a bunch of strangers.

Only downside is this is my friend's girlfriend. But she was so flirty at the bar with me, mostly putting her arm around me in front of her boyfriend (who is my friend). And the next day, still put her arm around me in front of her boyfriend while she is sober. Asked this other girl to the wedding initially, but she couldn't say for sure and I got over asking her if she can make it because I felt I was annoying her so then I asked this girl because of how flirty she was last night. So I asked her and she was so excited and I felt she was more serious about going and actually would enjoy the wedding, so now I have a secure plus one to take to a wedding.

Sounds like I'm on the path of ultimate break up drama. But my friend didn't get angry at her or at me, he just didn't care. It's like we're sharing a girl together. I only know the couple fought or argued over something, but I have no idea what it was about. So for a girl to be flirting with another guy right in front of her boyfriend some kind of warning sign she is putting on her BF? Like a warning sign about I am going to leave you if you don't change or make our current relationship more interesting? I would be angry if a GF did that in front of me because I still get jealous inside even when other just friend girls are flirting with other guys.

So we will be alone at this wedding and her BF won't be there. She seems like the kind of girl I would wanna make my girlfriend because she approves of my adrenaline seeking passion. Such as snowboarding, riding motorcycles, jet skiing, etc. She's probably be the only girl so far I could convince to have a motorcycle and would love to go for rides. I see old couples go on rides on Honda Pilots on the weekends and seems like something I wanna do when I grow old. I don't get why any girl would do something like this with me when she has a boyfriend, especially in front of his face. But I feel my friend has cheated on her before so if she decided to cheat with me, I think it's fair game and I can't be called out for being a bad friend. If she really was serious about breaking up with him, I hope it the drama will be kept at minimum and we can all just move and accept what happens. I'm sure you older members have seen something like this go down within your lifetime so just wondering what your thoughts are.

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Old 02-26-2013, 06:15 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I'd say your a complete asshole, and she sounds like a cheating whore.... So make the most of it while you can.
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And how old are you and her? ....

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And how old are you and her? ....

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Well obviously not gonna ask this on facebook. This is why I go find random forums so I can discuss personal matters anonymously.
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I'm sure you older members have seen something like this go down within your lifetime so just wondering what your thoughts are.
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Maybe she's a freak and her and your friend have an understanding. I've got a friend who's wife is an absolute freak. She gets other guys. He gets other girls. She gets other girls. Works for them.
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Just my personal rule of thumb:

If a friend of mine has had any emotional ties to a female...period, she's off limits!
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Why do we keep feeding this troll?
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Old 02-26-2013, 08:19 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Just my personal rule of thumb:
If a friend of mine has had any emotional ties to a female...period, she's off limits!
That's a silly rule, IMO. Why should a good girl be off limits forever just because your possibly emo, possibly d-bag friend may or may not have legitimate feelings for her?

No, I don't recommend going around dating your friends' ex-gfs, but I wouldn't let some male-centric 'brah-code' prevent me from going out with a girl if (what I deem to be) a suitable amount of time has passed.

However, none of this applies to your current situation. If this is your friend's girlfriend then you should have the common courtesy to not help her cheat on him.

If you are seriously dead set on going after this gal then you should break up your friendship with the guy *first*.... and then wait for her to break up with this guy... but keep in mind that there aren't many flings that are worth burning a lifetime friendship over.

Also, don't expect her to treat you any better than she's treating him. if she's flirting with dudes in front of him then there is no telling what's going on when he's not around.

Some gals just aren't the right fit for being your monogamous, steady relationship.
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I'd say your a complete asshole, and she sounds like a cheating whore.... So make the most of it while you can.
I second that. Big time dirty hoooooorrrr. She is likely enticing because she is dirty and you watch alot of porn. Sounds like you have not been laid in a while bud. Play with that and join the 1/4 Albertans who have a STD. Nothing like a good wedding date.
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