Taking my friend's GF to wedding
So I asked this girl to be my plus one to this wedding I was going to since I was given one and wanted to use it mainly because I only know the bride, but have no mutual friends with her so I would be forced to mingle with a bunch of people I don't know. Not that it's bad, but it's more work to try socializing with a bunch of strangers.
Only downside is this is my friend's girlfriend. But she was so flirty at the bar with me, mostly putting her arm around me in front of her boyfriend (who is my friend). And the next day, still put her arm around me in front of her boyfriend while she is sober. Asked this other girl to the wedding initially, but she couldn't say for sure and I got over asking her if she can make it because I felt I was annoying her so then I asked this girl because of how flirty she was last night. So I asked her and she was so excited and I felt she was more serious about going and actually would enjoy the wedding, so now I have a secure plus one to take to a wedding.
Sounds like I'm on the path of ultimate break up drama. But my friend didn't get angry at her or at me, he just didn't care. It's like we're sharing a girl together. I only know the couple fought or argued over something, but I have no idea what it was about. So for a girl to be flirting with another guy right in front of her boyfriend some kind of warning sign she is putting on her BF? Like a warning sign about I am going to leave you if you don't change or make our current relationship more interesting? I would be angry if a GF did that in front of me because I still get jealous inside even when other just friend girls are flirting with other guys.
So we will be alone at this wedding and her BF won't be there. She seems like the kind of girl I would wanna make my girlfriend because she approves of my adrenaline seeking passion. Such as snowboarding, riding motorcycles, jet skiing, etc. She's probably be the only girl so far I could convince to have a motorcycle and would love to go for rides. I see old couples go on rides on Honda Pilots on the weekends and seems like something I wanna do when I grow old. I don't get why any girl would do something like this with me when she has a boyfriend, especially in front of his face. But I feel my friend has cheated on her before so if she decided to cheat with me, I think it's fair game and I can't be called out for being a bad friend. If she really was serious about breaking up with him, I hope it the drama will be kept at minimum and we can all just move and accept what happens. I'm sure you older members have seen something like this go down within your lifetime so just wondering what your thoughts are.
Last edited by JetFalcon; 02-26-2013 at 05:50 AM.