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post #1 of 102 (permalink) Old 11-04-2008, 08:13 PM
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need some girl friend help haha

yo like, i can't stand to see my girl even like, talk to another guy. shittt dude, like, i don't know if it is jealousy, or just my anger problems acting up real bad. i'm trying to keep it cool, but i just want to know like, what can i do to like frigginn, make myself calm down??
post #2 of 102 (permalink) Old 11-04-2008, 08:54 PM
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obvisiously u dont trust her

as for calming down smoke some reefer

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nahh i trust her. i just have bad anger. and i'll pass. pretty much straightedge.
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hey man ive had the same problem sort of.. i mean i dont get PISSED but it does bug me.

see my girl is very social and its great. but shes also not to be bragging very pretty.. so lots of guys try to talk to her and the like..

what i do is just ignore it.. if its just like "hey whats up" kinda thing then dont worry about it.. if shes going out of her way to talk to other guys then ask her about it..

then if shes like oh there just my friend. tell her the thing we all know is true.. guys are guys and there just tryin to get at her.

she'll understand and it should help things out
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Shes Cheating On You Dump Her!
post #6 of 102 (permalink) Old 11-04-2008, 10:31 PM
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I think it also comes down to self-confidence, if you know how she feels about you and obviously what you give her, you really have nothing to worry about. If it was an issue, get it out in the open and see where her motives lie.

Like Nick said, if she's attractive she'll get attention, it's what guys do. The way I've always tried to look at it, especially when you trust the girl, is no matter what is said or what those other guys may think in their heads, I'm going home with her.

If you trust her, talk to her about it and put yourself out there. If you don't then find someone else that doesn't make you feel that way, keeping in mind that if it keeps happening its something you will have to deal with.

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post #7 of 102 (permalink) Old 11-04-2008, 11:28 PM
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"try hitting her"



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you have jealousy issues. and anger management problems. but this is nothing weird or unoriginal.

i smoked a lot for many years and so any such feelings for me, are long since past. such dietary supplementation may have been a contributory factor to my chilling out.....

or it could be the realisation that as much love and trust as you might have for someone (or think you have for someone) actions speak louder than words.

as such, it is a really nice feeling to see your woman having a laff with someone, safe in the knowledge that it is nothing and that she will always leave with you!

the single best bit of advice i can give you (speaking from being loved up for over 12 years now).... don't fuck about; be honest. tell her how you feel. think about it then express it. do not try to tell her what she can or cannot do; just tell her how it makes you feel.

if she fails to take your words into consideration, then just walk away. she ain't for you.

life is as complex as you wanna make it.

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damn, the weird really show up around here when colonies is down. I agree with nzgnu, smack her in the mouth.

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Yeah TJ, I'm expecting a "U Guys R HOT!!! Any of you wanna Chat?" thread any minute now.

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