Dude, you're a pussy. This is coming from a guy who is married and has been with his wife for over 10 years now. Get your balls back now or lose them forever. You may lose the girl in the process, but you're in straight up bitch mode right now.
The relationships that last do so in large part because both people retain their individuality to a certain extent. They don't have to involve their partner in every aspect of their lives.
"People say that marijuana smoking is going to get in the way of my career. I say to them that on the contrary, my fighting career is getting in the way of my marijuana smoking." -Nick Diaz