Dude, just go have fun, you will get better with time. Just keep pushing yourself to go faster and ride harder terrain. If your not falling then your not learning. Hard to say this, but I say it to myself all the time, and since you were looking for things to say to yourself I would say....DON'T BE A PUSSY!! Watch the art of flight or some other snowboard movie while your cooking breakfast and go rock that shi*! And if you still suck, GO get a Lesson. Advanced instructors are awesome.