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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Colorado
Posts: 169
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Seriously though, she has to get over the fear and just go for it. She'll fall more the more she holds back. |
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Grand Junction, CO
Posts: 539
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Lessons. Friends don't let friends teach friends and that goes double for people in relationships.
Example: From the lift I watched this guy teaching his friend how to board from a pair of skis. He was telling his friend he had to commit to his toe-side. This is of course after catching his toeside. Seems to me the problem wasn't with committing to his toes. An instructor would be able to recognize what was actually happening and give "meaningful" feedback to this person. Instructor's don't go into lessons with preconceptions about how a person might process information and discover the best way to communicate. Do yourself a big favor and get her a lesson and go do some freeriding so you both are happy. |
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Bham
Posts: 2,699
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You fucked up...you taught her to "BRAKE"...duh...you re-enforced her fear even though she has protection, you have set up the wrong expectations...no wonder she can't ride.
LESSONS give the poor girl a chance.
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Posts: 110
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Get her a lesson. Teaching your significant other is a challenge because it sets up a power struggle in the relationship. Doing that will ruin a good relationship and make a bad relationship worse. I've seen it wreck tons of relationships. Better to get her some lessons or split the cost on an all women's program. Long term, you'll both be happier. Short term, at the end of the day you'll be able to sleep in the same bed that night.
I've been teaching snowboarding for 12 years, AASI Level III certified, and staff trainer at a mountain for 7years. Last season my gf wanted to learn how to snowboard and asked me to teach her and her friend and I refused. She was annoyed but got over it when she and her friend were in a lesson and saw a couple yelling at each other on the bunny slope. Now, the only teaching I give her are advice when she asks for it. She's improving, we have fun riding together all day, and can still stand to look at each other at the bar after a day of riding. |
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Posts: 121
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I have to agree with what these guys are telling you. The lessons are SO worth it. SHe'll learn faster, and you'll both have way more fun. I'm a full time instructor and staff trainer and see the same thing all the time. Where are you located? I work at Sugarbush, (an hour from Killington). If you're ever going to be up this way let me know. The biggest thing to remember is that its supposed to be fun. If she's not having fun she won't learn anything nor will she want to try again. Best of luck to you guys!
-hanna |
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 69
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I will take one day and go back to the basics, starting from skating, gliding, and 1footed strapped in basic turns
Once i feel like shes progressing in these areas, well go a bit faster with gliding and strap the other foot on for 2 footed turns/stops and garlands We plan on going again next tues... In the mean time ill have her do some exercised to strengthen her leg muscles some |
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The Rooster King
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Oregon
Posts: 2,334
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you're just going to waste another day on suck. if you're that stubborn then you deserve what you get, and if you're so broke that you or her can't afford a lesson then you shouldn't really be snowboarding get a grip kid
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